Loneliness

 

Loneliness Equals Insecurity

Being happy with one's security

Means being content with one's self

Loneliness equals insecurity

Knowing this takes maturity

One's spirit knows your not by yourself

In happy with one's security

The enemy gives one obscurity

In making one not like oneself

Loneliness equals insecurity

Better when one realizing your not alone

The Holy Spirit your companion be

Giving guidance yourself to love then shown

For with God within yourself does see

His security is all that you need

In setting your loneliness free

Once this security one's soul agree

Loneliness equals insecurity

Past loneliness security exceed

Being happy with one's security

    ©Doris Elaine

Thoughts: Loneliness for most usually means missing having another in one's life. And this can greatly upset one's security within one's self, if one lets it. It can equal a void in one's life, as well. A void that another human cannot fill. Looking to another to fill that emptiness that's when loneliness can generate (if you let it) and can only cause more conflict within one's self.  That's where insecurity of loneliness comes in. There is nothing wrong with loving one's self in being secure in being a Christian, a daughter or son of the Most High. In loving one's self in identity as a Child of God. That's not boosting, that's simply, knowing! Our heavenly Father through the Holy Spirit is the only comforter of our deep down loneliness that lies within in our soul. If one is not secure in knowing one is never alone with God within them then they will never obtain self security. And, if one cannot obtain being happy with one self then one is not secure within one self, One should not seek, nor depend on another-outside of God-in bringing about self security; as, loneliness equals insecurity.  

Some Scriptures to consider in strengthening your security (All are New King James Version):

"You shall love your neighbor as yourself "(Matthew 22:39)-Don't put yourself down.

"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of sound mind" (2 Timothy 1:7)-Behave with God-confidence

"If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins....." (1 John 1:9)-It only means you are still alive if you fail, you have a pulse. And "There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus...." (Romans 8:1).

"For we dare not class ourselves or compare ourselves with those who commend themselves. But they, measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise" (2 Corinthians 10: 12)-You are unique, do not compare yourself to others. God made you wonderfully as you are; incomparable. 

"Behold what manner of love the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be called children of God!" (1 John 3:1)-He gives us grace as His children. 

"He who walks with wise men will be wise" (Proverbs 13:20)-Surround yourself with positive people.  

"In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you" (1 Thessalonians 5:18)-Be happy with everything.

"For I say, through the grace given me, to everyone who is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think soberly....) (Romans 12:3)-Have realistic expectation. 

"For whom the Lord loves, He corrects, Just as a father the son in whom He delights" (Proverbs 3:12)-Growth is a necessary process. 

"For do I now persuade men, or God? Or do I seek to please men? For if I still pleased men, I would not be a bondservant of Christ" (Galatians 1:10)-Do what is right and pleasing to Jesus.

"Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things that are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy--meditate on these things" (Philippians 4"8)-Simply, Be positive!